If you love someone because you think that he or she is really gorgeous…
then it’s not love..
it’s – Infatuation. ..

If you love someone because you think that you shouldn’t leave him because others think that you shouldn’t…
then it’s not love..
it’s – Compromise.. .

If you love someone because you think that you cannot live with out his touch….
then it’s not love..
it’s – Lust…

If you love someone because you have been kissed by him…
then it’s not love..
it’s – Inferiority Complex…

If you love someone because you cannot leave him thinking that it would hurt his feelings..
then it’s not love..
it’s – Charity…

If you love someone because you share every thing with him…
then it’s not love..
it’s – Friendship.. .

but if you feel the pain of the other person more than him even when he is stable
and you cry for him..
that’s – LOVE…

The Winner is always part of the answer;
The Loser is always part of the problem.

The Winner always has a program;
The Loser always has an excuse.

The Winner says, “Let me do it for you”;
The Loser says, “That is not my job.”

The Winner sees an answer for every problem;
The Loser sees a problem for every answer.

The Winner says, “It may be difficult but it is possible”;
The Loser says, “It may be possible but it is too difficult.”

When a Winner makes a mistake, he says, “I was wrong”;
When a Loser makes a mistake, he says, “It wasn’t my fault.”

A Winner makes commitments;
A Loser makes promises.
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The following is the philosophy of Charles Schultz, the creator of the “Peanuts” comic strip. You don’t have to actually answer the questions. Just  read the post straight through, and you’ll get the point.

1. Name the five wealthiest people in the world.

2. Name the last five Heisman trophy winners.

3. Name the last five winners of the Miss America Contest.

4. Name ten people who have won the Nobel or Pulitzer Prize.

5. Name the last half dozen Academy Award winners for best actor and actress.

6. Name the last decade’s worth of World Series winners.

How did you do?
The point is, none of us remember the headliners of yesterday. They are not second-rate achievers. They are the best in their fields. But the applause dies. Awards tarnish. Achievements are forgotten. Accolades and certificates are buried with their owners.

Here’s another quiz. See how you do on this one:
1. List a few teachers who aided your journey through school.

2.. Name three friends who have helped you through a difficult time.

3. Name five people who have taught you something worthwhile.

4. Think of a few people who have made you feel appreciated and special.

5. Think of five people you enjoy spending time with.

Easier?
The lesson: The people who make a difference in your life are NOT the ones  with the most credentials, the most money, or the most awards. They are the  ones who care.

“Don’t worry about the world coming to an end today.
It’s already tomorrow in Japan .”
(Charles Schultz)